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marriage was formerly used for chaining two poor souls to live forever together despite not liked. The fact that not liked was quite common among the nobles, and they married their cousins to preserve their heritage. In fact, in addition to preserving its heritage, also kept some hereditary diseases.
But now, why people get married? I have come to believe that no marriage lasts forever, which is a little sad but also comforting. By God! your life be the same person?! no one would hold me so long ... and I'm not anyone. So when you say "will you marry me?" Throw yourself laugh. Obviously not! nor do I have children! Why they have to see the end of the world and have to suffer tortuous summer temperatures? I will not condemn anyone to hell like ...
Another important issue which has been discussed lately, is abortion. Well, my position is as follows: The abortion of fetuses a few weeks should be allowed anywhere. Let's be practical: the world is not enough food to abastercernos to our community, and having to leave your life for a terrible mistake you made feel young is too harsh a sentence for someone who is not yet an adult. ; What you should do is to prohibit any woman from having children before 18, and there it would end the problem.
Well, back to the main theme. Today, marriage is not compulsory to have a child. Although I must say that is still not very well regarded here. The right thing is to get married, have children and then divorced. Which leads me to believe that children are part of the problem. When newborns, crispa anyone would be awakened while sleeping with a huge scream. It's normal to be tense ever since.
Then the children grow, and have to go to the dentist, pick them up from school, take them to their extracurricular activities, etc. And men are the majority further interest in them at that age, and only want to play with them and little else, she should go for the children, although this work. This implies that because of children, women have lower job performance and more opportunities to be fired. This causes women are still relegated to lower positions today, and not take into account the important decisions in a company. So if ever you marry, please be with a man who does things half.
In short, then the child gets older and we return to the same endless cycle in which the woman is the idiot who takes care of it. But ... What if that child had not been born? Could not possibly have become an important executive or to make some crazy dream like going to El Salvador to build houses? Really ... might have been different. That's the main reason why women have children so late.
There are some who can not stand until the child is of age, and decide to separate before. The child has to go to the psychologist. Great! Was not enough to go to the dentist, eye doctor, football, tennis, hockey, also have to take him to a psychologist that charges more than I earn in one day for an hour of work! (Thought the typical paternal)
In our times, separating it is like water and bread every day. I therein lies the problems of contemporary adolescence. In part, the parents, they turn away, fighting for the money, property and even their children, without the least regard the psychological consequences which would result in all their actions.
But ... and if they had not had that child, and if they had not married .... Could not be happier doing what they really like? For example ... shopping ... play a game of bowling ... etc. And if they had aborted and had enjoyed a bit more of life before that child??
therefore, think very well things we do every day, they can harm our environment significantly.
adoption Donate something that is in your own blood? Impossible, irresponsible. Would not that what you want? For me yes. In addition, couples who can not have a child ... For nothing that they can not have it! Who knows if little later, this family so happy, eventually disbanded as well. If you can not conceive a child can not. And now! Do not keep more! It is your destiny to have a child.
Tuesday, December 29, 2009
Monday, December 28, 2009
Guy Tuxedo's For 2010
Marriage Revenge Death
When someone hurts you, the first thing you think of revenge, to strike back, stronger than you did at first. Inflict more suffering than you have inflicted on you. The truth is that revenge brings nothing but more hatred and desire to revenge, which leads to a spiral of hatred.
When someone attacks you, there are several ways of doing things: Do nothing, revenge, fight back, fight back.
Some think the way to get what you want to be peaceful (Gandhi) and therefore should not react to the attacks of others. Some others think violent action combined with anger. Others think counter to sense the movement of the enemy. Others decide to defend themselves. The solution of revenge, violence in general is to understand the person attacking you, that what is wrong. To do this we must understand the reason for his revenge and defend; stop their act of revenge, eliminating internal rage. Many times, we must know how to ask forgiveness for it.
Revenge does not lead to anything. Also, after carrying it out, leaves you with a feeling like you're missing something else that you could enjoy your revenge at all.
It is best to defend yourself, and try to change people's opinion. But when you can not defend yourself and you're left with a huge open wound, you can not do anything but wait. Wait for what they have pass bill. And believe me, we all end up going through the trial and the smallest things can decide on your way out of this world or not.
I have often thought of revenge, but I've only done a couple of times and I paid a heavy price for it. To err is human.
When someone hurts you, the first thing you think of revenge, to strike back, stronger than you did at first. Inflict more suffering than you have inflicted on you. The truth is that revenge brings nothing but more hatred and desire to revenge, which leads to a spiral of hatred.
When someone attacks you, there are several ways of doing things: Do nothing, revenge, fight back, fight back.
Some think the way to get what you want to be peaceful (Gandhi) and therefore should not react to the attacks of others. Some others think violent action combined with anger. Others think counter to sense the movement of the enemy. Others decide to defend themselves. The solution of revenge, violence in general is to understand the person attacking you, that what is wrong. To do this we must understand the reason for his revenge and defend; stop their act of revenge, eliminating internal rage. Many times, we must know how to ask forgiveness for it.
Revenge does not lead to anything. Also, after carrying it out, leaves you with a feeling like you're missing something else that you could enjoy your revenge at all.
It is best to defend yourself, and try to change people's opinion. But when you can not defend yourself and you're left with a huge open wound, you can not do anything but wait. Wait for what they have pass bill. And believe me, we all end up going through the trial and the smallest things can decide on your way out of this world or not.
I have often thought of revenge, but I've only done a couple of times and I paid a heavy price for it. To err is human.
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